Sunday, November 17, 2013
life is everchanging. it never stays the same.
we meet new people, we develop new relationships with them. we cherish the relationships.
yet, relationships are very fragile things. once broken, it never repairs itself fully. that little scratch over there still exists. it may not be visible to the eye, but it has a rather great impact.
often, we fear to break relationships. whether is it kinship, friendship, or love (is there a ~ship word for it?).
kinship: we love our family no matter what. yet, misunderstandings will threaten to crush it. and often under pressure, it gives way and stays crumbled.
friendship: we treasure our friendships as they are the ones we can turn to for comfort, for little talks that cant be told to our family. yet, bickers occur, misunderstandings occurs and you find that, hey, this friend.. isnt that friend there for you anymore.
love: everyone falls in love. it just happens. that fluttery feeling you get, that heart throbbing situations you get into. yet, does the other party love you back too? or wait, do you know the person you fell in love with well enough? no? sigh. in the end, these lovers become complete strangers. who were they? how did you ever fall for them in the first place? regrets? too late.
our lives just flow along with all these relationships. we fall, we crumble, we give up. ultimately, life just fucks you up. horribly. but in this world, you are not the only fucked up one. there are billions of people out there besides you.
so move on, smile.
11:31 PM ; smile?